Just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years...

[Diego]

And I feel like crap, but I know it was the right call.
Too much drama, too much insecurities, too much mommy and daddy issues.
And still I feel like a bastard for leaving her alone.
But she needs it, some people need to learn to grow and love themselves before commiting to others.

[serizawa]

Argh, my condolences, bro.

Sounds a lot like a bunch of girls I know. You can only keep pulling so far until you gotta know it's time to give up and go.


Hope ya feel better.

[astrozombie]

You'll be fine Diego.

If it was the right call, with time, you might even feel proud of your actions, because in the end things progressed after it ended.

[Vasshu the humanoid typhoon]

Sounds like a plan to move on....
Not much is worth drama and endless insecurities issues...
All the best!

[exnihilo]

And I feel like crap, but I know it was the right call.
Too much drama, too much insecurities, too much mommy and daddy issues.
And still I feel like a bastard for leaving her alone.
But she needs it, some people need to learn to grow and love themselves before commiting to others.

Dude, that is the 100% ultra-freaking mega-truth if there ever was one.


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[Bones]

Congratulations man. Sounds like you made the right choice.

[newking70]

she'll be stalking you....

[DLT]

she'll be stalking you....

Shoot...you mean YOU"LL be stalking Diego!

[Skullkrusher]

Sounds like you've got it figured out. Gotta do whats best for you.

[Gearjoneser]

Just be a man and don't fall for the "getting back together, being friends, or bootie call" nonsense, which is sure to come in the next few weeks.

Tell her to have a good life.

And then keep yourself ties free until you meet someone who's perfect for you.

[Diego]

Just be a man and don't fall for the "getting back together, being friends, or bootie call" nonsense, which is sure to come in the next few weeks.

Tell her to have a good life.

And then keep yourself ties free until you meet someone who's perfect for you.

No way I'm getting back with her, or having much contact at all.
I just couldn't do something like that to her or myself. Over means over.

I want her to have a good life, to be secure about herself and her decisions.
She was too dependant on me, kept blowing up about tiny things and overall she became a wreck since some time ago.
I truly love her, but I couldn't keep up with that anymore, there's only so much you can take and I forced myself to points you wouldn't believe, for love.
I want the best for her and myself, that's why I broke up with her.

I'll definitely keep myself ties free. I'm not interested in anyone right now.

It feels so odd to share personal stuff over here guys. It's not my style at all.
But I'm very grateful for your support. Thank you all.

[Aceman]

Just be a man

Says the guy who deleted a thread about his friend showing up with strippers because he's askeerd of his wife.

[BlueSnMettle]

Says the guy who deleted a thread about his friend showing up with strippers because he's askeerd of his wife.

[alteredbeast]

ah splitting up is never an easy thing for either parties. good luck dude.

[STRATDELUXER97]

And I feel like crap, but I know it was the right call.
Too much drama, too much insecurities, too much mommy and daddy issues.
And still I feel like a bastard for leaving her alone.
But she needs it, some people need to learn to grow and love themselves before commiting to others.

My 21 y/o son is going through the exact same scenario as you...The girl he was with was trying to control him,spend his money....It had to be her way with everything,plus she doesn't drive and has no job...Best my son loses her,cause she's a loser!

[Aceman]

Sounds like you made a good call Diego. Always tough to throw away the sure pooty. But at the end of he day if it's that hard, it just isn't right. You are 24. You should be knocking the bottom out of everything you fall into for a couple more years.

Play guitar, drink beer, and get a little strange. You'll be fine. Good opportunity to work the post count.

[arellanon]

I'm sorry bro. But at least it seems you made the right call on breaking up.

Clear your mind with some guitar playing!

[Gingrel]

sucks man, but looks like you made the right decision. My gf of 2 and a half years suddenly announced that she'd "rather just be friends" back in September, so I know how painful it is to lose someone you truly love.

Stay strong bro, time heals everything

[Laughing Kookaburra]

Hang in there D. Peace.

[Kosh Naranek]

Sorry to hear it didn't work. I have been there. Drama, insecurity, other issues - nothing long term would have worked out anyway, and we had to finally face that fact. It's not easy, but the relationship gets to a point where you know it can't go further.