I've been practicing for 2 years now, from beginner to being 'stuck', so I need to jam with people. I'd probably get laughed on this, but how does one go about finding people to jam in the local scene? I know it's real easy if you're in big city, you go into lots of clubs. Or if you're in high school, and starting to play. But I'm much older and live in small town. Is there a e harmony site for musicians? I'm a good lover, promise.