Positive body images?

[hareek]

I mean I wish I was a little thinner (less body fat) and had more muscle definition, but the bottom line is my lifestyle simply doesn't allow it. I work an 8-5 desk job and when I get home, it's tough to find time to work out. I could if I really wanted to but I'd have to sacrafice some social activities that I'm not willing to part with right now. But as for comfort, yeah I'm comfortable with how I look. I've never really had a problem attracting girls...maybe it's my personality I dunno. But I like girls that don't put too much emphasis on looks in a guy or don't demand perfection anyway...the more chill girls. I'm no model so I don't expect to attract someone that wants a model.

With that being said, I've noticed my face getting a little fatter in the last couple of years, and that's probably the one thing that bothers me and I want to change. But I don't lose any sleep over it.

a positive self image has more to do with your head than anything else. its great to be in good shape but if your gf has to tell you to stop then you got some bad wiring up there and need to mellow out.

This.