Nerves...lots of nerves...

[krankguitarist]

OK, so, there's this girl in my psych class that I'm kinda interested in. We've been talking before and after class for a couple of weeks now, and today I asked for her number.

Its been a while since I've done that, and I was nervous as all hell, but I didn't show it. Even now I'm still feeling the after-effects. Bah. Nerves.

So, now I have the number. How long's the going rate for when to call? I figure I just call her friday or saturday and ask if she wants to go grab a cup of coffee or somthing. Its been far too long since I've done this.

[RiffRaff]

well, if she gave it to you she's probably expecting a call soon, don't let her down!!!

[LesStrat]

Perluss Whun.

Unless it's an 800 or 900 number.

[nepalnt21]

Perluss Whun.

what the heck does that even mean?

[theodie]

what the heck does that even mean?

I have no idea either but, he is probally going to respond by saying Perluss Whun.

[zero element]

Hey uh...if your not gonna do anything with the number Ill take it.

[danhans]

take your time..wait for a day or two..if u call her too soon, u look desperate..

[Arkitkt]

Do you like her? Do you want to call her??

Don't play mindgames and call her when you feel like it. If you are desperate, she'll find out sooner or later anyway. Girls are smarter than guys, no use pretending.

[JB_From_Hell]

Don't play that how-long-should-I-wait crap.... call her tomorrow.

[HamerPlyr]

I'm a big fan of putting my cards on the table. If you like me for me, then it doesn't matter when I call you. If I have to play a bunch of tricks to make it work, it isn't worth my time and effort because it won't work out in the long run. Call her as soon as you want to.*










*The preceding advice was free and may be worth every penny of it.

[Blue Calx]

I like Rob's advice. Have I ever had the balls to actually follow it? No, but I always end up wishing I had.

[davedvdy]

Call her soon! you need to know if she gave you the right phone number!

[HamerPlyr]

Call her soon! you need to know if she gave you the right phone number!

Good point. Lord knows that back in my time, I got my share of bogus phone numbers.

[davedvdy]

Good point. Lord knows that back in my time, I got my share of bogus phone numbers.

Nowadays it's easier. When they give out their phone number, make sure they give out the cell #, then "test it" w/your phone while she's there, lol.

[krankguitarist]

Do you like her? Do you want to call her??

Don't play mindgames and call her when you feel like it. If you are desperate, she'll find out sooner or later anyway. Girls are smarter than guys, no use pretending.

Yes and yes...

And I've never been too good at mind games. Though I feel like the special olympics decathlon is being played out in my head right now. Time for a beer.

Next Tuesday is a good tiem to call. Mainly because I'm taking her out for coffee Friday, Saturday, Sunday, and Monday.

I'm a big fan of putting my cards on the table. If you like me for me, then it doesn't matter when I call you. If I have to play a bunch of tricks to make it work, it isn't worth my time and effort because it won't work out in the long run. Call her as soon as you want to.*

Thats what I'm thinking. Though building up the nerve to call will be a tough one. **** it. I gotta stop analyzing this stuff so much. I'll just call.

Call her soon! you need to know if she gave you the right phone number!

Really hoping I don't get one of those rejection hotline services . I'd probably laugh my ass off for about three minutes then bang my head against the wall until I pass out.

[HamerPlyr]

Whatever else happens, good luck. You are the best thing that ever happened to the right girl. This one may be one of the right girls, and she may not be. My advice is to be yourself and let the rest fall into place. Don't do anything stupid like showing up at her place naked, but be yourself, within reason.

[krankguitarist]

Whatever else happens, good luck. You are the best thing that ever happened to the right girl. This one may be one of the right girls, and she may not be. My advice is to be yourself and let the rest fall into place. Don't do anything stupid like showing up at her place naked, but be yourself, within reason.

****, time to rethink my strategy...






























Just kidding. I was gonna have a space-suit helmet on.

[HamerPlyr]

space-suit helmet

Is that some kind of condom term that I'm not aware of? lol

[daemon barbeque]

i call allways the same day!
if not ,the day after!
i did it different in the past.i waited 2 days!
and i am serious!
It allways worked well.

[StrangeSound]

Come as you are..