Not looking for a confession here, or to judge anyone. Just wondering. It can be an infidelity on a girlfriend, wife, or other close relationship (so Theodie feels included).
How did it turn out? Was it a one time thing, or something ongoing?
I have once in my life. During college I was living with my then girlfriend. I was a senior and met a freshman while I was waiting tables. She was one of the most beautiful women at the time I had ever seen, and she was interested in me. I guess I was at that stage in my relationship where it was getting "settled" for lack of a better term. It was also my longest relationship to date at that point. I cheated with her just once, but it was one of those nights that you just remember as almost perfect.
I didn't end up leaving my girlfriend at that point, but the girl I cheated with did end up being my daughters mom. In retrospect, I wish I hadn't done it. She turned out to be literally the living incarnation of all that is evil, but my daughter was a result of the relationship (but not of the initial incident), and I wouldn't change that for anything. So, depending on how you look at it, that was the reason I chose that path..because I was meant to have my daughter.
How about you?